My fiance's sisters...

By: whara

Date: 04/25/2005 at 8:25 PM

I've been engaged for four months and our wedding is not until fall 2006, so I haven't told my bridal party yet. I'm having trouble deciding. My fiance has three sisters, all older than he is, who I know equally. My own sister is four years older than me and my other two friends I want to ask are my age. Only one of his sisters is semi-close to my age, 7 years older, and the other two are 11 and 15 years older. My fiance is asking his brother in law, who is married to the sister 7 years older than me, and I want to ask her, to keep all my bridesmaids within 5 years of each other and myself.. How can I ask just her without offending the others? Or is this unreasonable and should I ask them all?

I know you probably have heard it before, or if not, you can read this forum and see many answers like this one. IT IS YOUR DAY! You don't ever have to explain yourself about who you pick, and people should just be happy to be there for your big day.

You should have who you want to be in it... Its your decision... Put whoever in it that makes YOU happy...