Favors are a popular trend in weddings around the nation. Whether it be commemorative, unique, or traditional there are many factors to be considered when deciding whether or not to include favors on your big day.
Diamonds
Favors are a thoughtful "thank-you" for your guests.
In order to let your guests know that you appreciate them attending your wedding and often times bring you a some sort of gift, brides and grooms like to give favors as an expression of gratitude.
Favors can make a playful addition to your tables and decor.
I have seen many times that tables are too bare or I hear that people are having trouble finding something else to dress up their decor. Add favors that will compliment and add to your reception decorations.
Favors, if personalized, are the first presentation of your new name together.
It is always fun and special to have something that includes your new name together, and why not have it on a favor for everyone at your wedding to see.
If your favors follow a theme of your wedding, they can also be a unique keepsake for you and your guests.
Yes pictures and other items will provide great memories of your wedding, but if you still would like more, consider some type of favor that you and your guests can keep.
Duds
Favors can be a costly addition to an already pricey event.
I know just as well as everyone else that small things can add up in your wedding, and people are always looking for things to cut out. Favors are not required and can be one of those items that can reduce your budget drastically.
Guests often aren't sure what to do with your favors so they are left at the reception or in the garbage.
It can be very sad and upsetting if you spend all that time and money on favors and in the end they are left at your reception or in the garbage.
It may be hard to find a unique favor to match your theme and decor.
You have picked out your dream colors and now located the perfect favors to fit your personality. You start to order them and you notice that the color purple is a little off, and if you actually used those on your table it might be quite tacky.
Favors, if not purchased from a retailer can be a stressful and time consuming endeavor to prepare.
You may want to think about that weddings are time consuming for you and your families involved. Often times I hear of brides and grooms taking on the task of creating your own favors, but remember that the family assembly line can take time away from other items in your wedding you would rather have time spent on.
Ultimately the decision to include favors is based on your budget restraints and personal preferences. I hope this issue of Diamonds and Duds helps you.